Dieting is taking up all my headspace


Perhaps you have been planning meals, counting calories, negotiating with yourself or thinking about what you will eat later since the moment you woke up. Trying to eat less can make food feel louder, not quieter.

These articles are here for the constant mental admin, the bargaining and the exhausting feeling that food has taken over far more of your day than actually eating it.

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The quiet war starts the moment the diet does

Start here if trying to lose weight has filled your day with planning, calculating, bargaining and constantly wondering whether you are doing well enough.

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